Perfection

Is my perfection causing other feeling pressure? My friend told me that my perfection has created a hide pressure to people around me.

He: You are too complicated. As you demand perfect..
Me: Are you sure?
He: Yes, this is the bad side of perfectionist always feel “not good enough”
Me: :) to achieve high standard and a force to pushing myself. I must have this attitude.
He: You are.. but it makes people around feel pressure too and this is not good.
Me: If you work in single minded work and I will not give you pressure.
He: I prefer to your best and try your best. No need to worry about the result.
Me: This means you are not doing the best.
He: May be.. but I feel more relax.

Hmmm.. thinking about it, I hardly apply it in my daily personal life; otherwise, I will be crazy.

This also remind me that maybe he is meeting my super high perfection standard which able to let me fall into the trap without aware of it. I am still thinking about him daily. :(